
You hear it everywhere.
You need a funnel.
You need a lead magnet.
You need email automation.
You need a perfect website.
These tools can be helpful.
They are just not where you begin.
For many new coaches, chasing tech becomes a distraction. It feels like progress, but it often leads to overwhelm and months spent stuck behind the screen.
Let me show you what I mean.
Case Study: From Tech Spiral to Clients
One of my clients, let us call her Jane, came to me feeling stuck.
She had been working on her coaching business for six months.
She had signed up for tech tools.
She spent hours trying to design her website.
She created a lead magnet and was thinking of a full email sequence.

She had not posted about her coaching.
She had not reached out to anyone directly.
And she had not signed a single client.
What Jane really needed was not another platform.
She needed clarity.
She needed confidence.
And she needed to talk to real people.
We paused the tech.
We refined her message.
We simplified her offer.
And we practised how to speak about her coaching with confidence.
Within 3 weeks, she had signed 2 paying clients.
Her website was still not live.
And that did not matter.
What You Actually Need First
Before the funnels, website and tech, you need the foundations.
Clarity

Even if your coaching is broad, your message cannot be vague.
Trying to reach everyone usually means connecting with no one.
Confidence
Confidence is not about having all the answers.
It is about believing in the value you bring.
You can build it over time.
You can borrow belief if you need to.
Start by helping one person.
Offer low cost or free sessions to practise.
Say it aloud.
I am a coach.
I help people.
I know my stuff.
The more you show up, the more you believe it.
Conversations
You will not grow your business by hiding behind your laptop.
Real results come from real conversations.

Ask questions.
Listen.
Invite them to take the next step.
Even the biggest names in coaching started with conversations.
Why Funnels Can Wait
Funnels help when something is already working.
They amplify a clear message.
They automate a process that converts.
They scale what is already in motion.
If your message is unclear
If you have not tested your offer
If you are not signing clients yet
A funnel will not fix that.
Most new coaches do not have a big email list.
They do not have enough data to know what works yet.
Trying to scale something that is not ready only creates more frustration.
What To Do Instead
Start small.
Start simple.
Here is what to do this week:
- Make a list of 10 people you could reach out to
- Post once with a clear offer or story
- Join one networking group — online or in person
- Send a short voice note to someone new
- Focus on helping just one person
You do not need a funnel. You need momentum.
Building Your Coaching Business the Right Way

You need human connection and a clear message
Focus on small, meaningful actions:
- Reach out to ten people
- Share a clear, simple post
- Have one real conversation
- Offer value before automation
- Practise your message until it feels natural
This is where client attraction begins.
You can always add tech later.
Start now with what truly works!
🎧 Listen to Small Business Talk for Coaches Episode 304
But I Need a Funnel. I Thought I Needed a Funnel… I Just Needed This